Our Mediation Process
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Step-by-Step Guide to Mediation
This is your first, private meeting with a qualified mediator. You'll:
- Learn about mediation
- Talk about your situation
- Decide if mediation is right for you
The MIAM is usually held via online video call, but if that’s not appropriate for you, we’re happy to arrange a confidential phone call instead.
- Only you and the mediator attend
- Lasts around 45 minutes
- If mediation isn’t suitable, we can issue a MIAM certificate so you can apply to court
If you're happy to proceed, we contact the other party to invite them to a MIAM.
They’ll have their own separate meeting, just like you.
- Participation is voluntary — but strongly encouraged by the courts.
If both people agree to continue, we’ll schedule your first joint mediation session.
We offer:
- Standard mediation
- Shuttle mediation (you’re in separate online rooms via Microsoft Teams)
Each session is usually 60–120 minutes. Most people resolve their issues in 1–2 sessions.
If both parents agree and it’s suitable, children can speak confidentially with a specially trained mediator. Their voice is then shared in the process — with their consent.
When an agreement is reached, we write a summary (called a Memorandum of Understanding). This can be shared with your solicitor if you’re turning it into a court-approved consent order.
- We often collaborate with solicitors — mediators help narrow or resolve the issues, and solicitors draft the legal documentation for court.
Did You Know?
- Over 90% of issues brought to mediation with us are resolved in just two hours
- Mediation is faster, more affordable, and more peaceful than going to court
- We're part of the MOJ Voucher Scheme to reduce the cost of child-related mediation
Mediation Process
A Clear Path to Resolution
Understanding the steps in our mediation process can help you feel confident in your decision. Here’s how we work together:
01
Contact Together Mediation
Reach out to our team to start your journey.
02
Expert Consultation
We explain the next steps and explore possible solutions tailored to your needs.
03
MIAM (Online Meeting)
Attend your initial online Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.
04
Decision Point
Decide if mediation is the right path for you.
05
First Meeting & Children Inclusive Options
Engage in your first mediation meeting. If children are involved, we explore inclusive mediation options.
06
Further Meetings & Documentation
Continue with additional sessions as required until an agreement is reached. Your mediator will document the arrangements for clarity and future reference.